July 14th, 2011
I’ve wanted to write a piece about education for a while but just hadn’t gotten around to it until now. I first felt the impetus to write this piece after reading a couple of blog entries from fellow poker player, Alec Torelli, where he essentially argued against people pursuing higher education. He used a bunch of absurd reasoning and inaccurate numbers, which I won’t go into detail about and aren’t relevant for this discussion. After reading those blogs, though, I immediately felt a tinge of anger because I thought he was being incredibly irresponsible towards young up and coming players who look to older successful players as role models for important choices in their lives; and I know that going to college is an incredibly important one that many young players struggle with. I, myself, have had multiple conversations with people who are considering going to college or considering going back after having dropped out after a semester or two. I personally feel that going to college is ultimately an individual choice (and could possibly not be the right choice for someone, Alec very well may be an example) but in my multiple conversations with young players, I have yet to encounter a single situation where I thought going to college wasn’t very clearly the right choice for them.
I was very lucky growing up in multiple ways. I was lucky enough to attend Trinity High School in Manhattan, which in April 2010 Forbes Magazine named the best college preparatory school in the United States. I was fortunate enough to be able to attend Cornell University and graduate without student loans. Most fortunate of all though, in my opinion, is that I didn’t start playing poker until well after I had graduated from college. I wasn’t forced to make some of the difficult choices that players are forced to make today. I sympathize with, even if I can’t totally empathize with, the trade offs that these young players feel they are forced to make. I can’t even unequivocally say that at the time, I would have had the maturity and foresight to make what I see now as the very obvious right decisions. Having had the benefit of my experiences however, I want to strongly urge young players who have decided not to go to college or to drop out, to reconsider. There are two main reasons why I think going to college is worthwhile and for the rest of this blog I’ll be speaking directly to those people who are considering whether or not it’s the right decision for them.
Personal development
Most 18-20 year olds don’t know who they are. Most of you think you do, but you don’t. Your late teens and early twenties are a time when you will inevitably go through an enormous amount of change in who you are, what you’re interested in and what you value. It’s a defining time in a person’s development and it is therefore crucial to fill that time with rich experiences, different types of people and new opportunities. College can be an incredibly enriching experience and an enormous amount of fun in a semi-controlled environment where you are a little bit more free to make mistakes and a little bit less liable in dealing with the consequences. College is about so much more than just going to classes. It’s a social experience, a personality developing experience that you are uniquely able to enjoy in your late teens and early twenties when you generally have very little or no responsibilities. It’s pretty commonly accepted that the best friends people make in their lives tend to come from their college days.
Many players tell me that they hated high school and therefore think they will also hate all forms of higher education. However, college is not simply an extension of high school. One big reason for that is choice. You have so much more choice in where you go, what you study and whom you hang out with than you did in high school. You can pick a major, a year later decide it’s not for you, and then switch to something totally different. You’ll meet kids from all over the country, even all over the world and have a diverse group of people with different backgrounds, interests and abilities from which to pick your friends. You can even travel while you study. Many schools have great study abroad programs where students can live in a foreign city for a semester with like-minded kids their own age and study as well as travel. This is very different from simply picking up on your own and traveling by yourself or with a group of friends. There is much more structure and balance in a study abroad program and you are still being productive academically by earning credits towards graduation.
Ultimately, college is a transition period between living with your parents and living on your own, between being supported and supporting yourself. You choose where, when and what to eat, when you go to sleep, and how to spend money. Obviously, 17-22 year olds living at home have a wide range of freedom but the point remains, college can soften the blow for young adults of what is an inevitably difficult transition to the increased freedom and responsibility of the real world. For many young players who chose not to go to college, I’ve noticed a similar disturbing pattern. Many of them end up insulating themselves from the “real world” spending a disproportionate amount of time playing poker, thinking and talking about poker, hanging out with other players, and just generally being consumed by the game. Instead of being forced to mature into responsible independent adults, they end up partly wasting a critical time in their lives that should be used learning from their mistakes and developing their real character.
Many young players tell me that they can’t see themselves working at a desk, working for someone else, or in general working in any specific job they can think of. They usually claim to be “entrepreneurs”, but inevitably have no specific plans beyond winning a live tournament and then “investing in a business”. This in my mind generally reflects a spoiled, undisciplined and immature attitude that is generally in denial about some basic truths; one being no matter what you do in life, you usually have to spend a decent amount of time and effort doing things you don’t necessarily want to do, another is the two main keys to being successful in anything are planning ahead and being prepared, as well as being willing to work harder than the next guy. Instead they bemoan the miserable life of “working in a cubicle” as if every non poker-playing job is some awful iteration of the movie “Office Space”. This attitude, in my opinion, tends to reflect both an ignorance and naiveté about working life. They might hear lawyer and think Law and Order but don’t know the difference between the daily lives of a corporate lawyer and a civil rights litigator. They hear doctor and think House but don’t know the difference between a pediatrician and an orthopedic surgeon, or the difference between a sales trader and an investment banker. How do you know if you want to be an electrical engineer, a graphic designer, a high school math teacher or even a nuclear physicist when you really don’t know much about what their jobs entail, what their lives are like, or even what you, yourself, are truly passionate about. By deciding not to go to college, however, you can basically guarantee that you will never know if you like or dislike any of these jobs/lifestyles, not to mention a myriad of others. This is the time to try something new, to fail at it, try something else, decide its not for you, and through this difficult and non-linear or textbook process, discover your true passions, your real interests and how you can pursue them in your life. This is a time for opening as many doors as possible, not closing them and ultimately limiting your choices 5, 10 or 20 years from now. If it seems like a difficult trade off at 20, imagine the trade off at 30 or 40. What if you’re married, or have children?
Financial
In a culture dominated by immediate gratification, consumerism, celebritism and greed, the “American dream” has been distorted to now mean getting rich while making the least effort possible. Without getting into how absurdly fantastical and counter-productive this general notion is, let’s quickly explore its relevance in poker. In the poker world, this idea manifests itself in numerous ways, not least of which is the idea that many young players believe that its easy to become a consistently (key word) successful professional player and/or that most professional players live a stress free life and are rolling in money; that all you have to do is run good for a little while and you’ll be rich. Both of these ideas are nonsense and totally mythical.
One of the dirty little secrets in the poker world is that most professionals, (yes even famous ones) are much more broke than they appear. For example, you might see a player’s headline number of $4 million in tournament earnings but don’t realize that the player in question has been playing tournaments for 8 years and has averaged $300k a year in buy-ins. That comes out to $200k a year profit, which is no doubt a good living, but especially when you consider travel expenses, it’s a much different lifestyle than the headline number suggests. Poker players, in general at least, are also notorious for making awful long-term financial decisions when they do have some money to spare (by a Jacob the Jeweler watch anyone??) Its incredibly common for a player to win a million dollars or more in a tournament or 2 and then be broke a year later. From staking other players to playing table games to spending too much money partying or playing stakes that are too high, there are a bunch of different ways that the professional poker player lifestyle can consume a player’s bankroll. I’m not arguing that it’s impossible to make money as a professional player, I’m simply saying that the same dynamic, albeit on a much smaller scale, exists in poker that exists in professional sports. For every kid who thinks they’re the next Michael Jordan, the harsh reality is that only a tiny % make the NBA. Similarly, the %s isn’t much better in poker and there is only one Jason Mercier. I’m not saying this to call out or belittle any individual player, but because I think that the majority of young players who think that they are going to be rich from playing poker need a dose of reality. I’m also not arguing that going to college is going to guarantee a great paying job; that is almost equally as absurd. However, there is very little value in pursuing poker as a career besides financial and lifestyle, and the financial part of that idea needs to be placed in proper context.
One of the biggest problems facing young people graduating from college today is student loans. College has become more and more expensive and as the income pie has been more and more unevenly divided, middle and lower class families in America have in many cases become simply unable to pay for their kids to go to college. These loans create financial and psychological burdens that stay with young people for years, influencing which jobs they seek, how old they are when they get married and have children of their own and so on and so forth. A successful poker player can dramatically offset or even totally avoid this problem by using poker profits to pay for school. One caveat is that for some players, this might add additional pressure when you play feeling that now you have to win to pay for school. However, I think that this can simply be worked into an already necessary bankroll management framework. If you can make 20-30k a year that can go a very long way to paying for your education and reducing your long term debt burden, and that is a reasonable amount for a young, talented player to make.
There is another obvious but still worth mentioning aspect to all of this, which is that going to college and playing poker can be done together. You don’t have to choose one or the other. It is surely difficult to manage both successfully but it’s definitely doable. It requires motivation and organization but is well worth it on multiple levels. Furthermore, this might be counter-intuitive but I also think that going to college can help someone be a better poker player and even to make more money. You might end up playing less hours but I think your win rate can improve. There are two main reasons for this. One is that depending on what you study, college can help develop and improve critical thinking and reasoning skills - this is actually the main academic function of college in my opinion. The ability to construct and deconstruct arguments is an essential skill not only for navigating life successfully but I also think it is specifically relevant for poker, especially online poker where range balancing and therefore higher level theoretical poker is so much more important. The other and probably more important way college can help you become a better poker player is by helping you to achieve life balance. Balance is one of the most important and necessary elements in a successful poker player’s life. Going to college will help create other priorities, both social and academic that compete in your life with poker. This will help to make poker a less dominant force in your life and give you better perspective. One of the biggest problems I see young players make is playing too much. You play when you’re tired, when you’re hungry, when you’re losing and you usually play sessions that are too long. You play well for a while but eventually your play drops off. Poker is so competitive that you have to make sure you play only when you are at your very best. Having other priorities hopefully will help force your sessions to be shorter and more focused, and therefore more profitable. It will also make dealing with variance easier because winning and losing won’t be the only or even main sources of joy and/or sadness in your life. I know that not everyone has the same issues with poker but from both my own experiences and conversations I’ve had, I have noticed some obvious patterns in the problems people deal with while playing poker so I am trying to speak to those.
I have purposefully waited until the end of this very long blog to discuss this subject in the context of Black Friday. Like I said earlier, I’ve wanted to write about this for a long time (way before Black Friday) and want it to have resonance regardless of the online poker situation in the US. I genuinely think that the current black out of online poker from the US will only last a matter of months. I think that it’s a perfect time for young players to reassess their priorities and reorganize their lives. My hope is that this temporary hiatus can serve as a much-needed wake up call for many of you. It is very easy to get wrapped up in poker and never stop to think about your long term prospects, from every point of view, financially, socially, spiritually, etc. Sometimes it takes a jolt to your system to ask yourself some important questions about the path your headed and where it eventually leads or should lead. A college degree doesn’t answer those questions but it serves to open many doors that increase the likelihood of one day finding fulfilling answers.
I’m not trying to glorify college life or universities in general. I have a number of problems with our current higher education system. I know for example that while grades have not gone down in the past 30 years, kids are graduating from college with severely worse cognitive skills. College students are basically working less, partying more and getting the same grades. I think this is mainly a cultural problem though and related to a number of factors, among them discipline and motivation. However if a poker player chooses on their own to attend college even when they have a potentially lucrative “job” waiting for them in the poker world, that should immediately put the issue of motivation to rest. I do think, though, that like many things in life, college will ultimately be worth about as much as you put into it. Is it possible to go through school without making much effort academically, socially or spiritually (or whatever word you want to use to describe emotional and psychological development) and therefore waste both time and money? Yes. But it’s also possible to go to college and learn a ton of worthwhile things, develop essential life skills, meet and make great friends and grow tremendously as a person. Ultimately the choice is yours. Good poker players pride themselves on being long-term theoretical thinkers. If you really have what it takes to make it in poker, then try applying the concepts of Sklansky dollars or G-bux to your life and you will quickly realize that the long term optimal play is to go to school, that to maximize your happiness and fulfillment equity means to plan ahead and make some short term sacrifices.